Merry Christmas!!!

Emma got up around 6:30 & crawled in bed with us. I finally gave in & we woke up Grace at around 7:15. They were, of course, so excited. We had a nice morning, I'm still trying to clean up....maybe tomorrow?

Beautiful roses

I got roses (and chocolate) delivered the other day from my sweet step sister Heather & her husband David. Simply put, they are absolutely gorgeous! Luckily Spring was here & used her "mad skills" to arrange them nicely for me. Here's a photo for your enjoyment. Now tell me...was I lying?!

A little construction

We received notice that the builders of our community used some plumbing that could potentially be faulty & leak. So in order to avoid a class action lawsuit they have dutifully stepped up & contracted with a plumbing company to repair ALL the pipes in each unit. Nice of them right? Yes it's nice but can I just mention it's a FOUR day PAIN IN THE BUTT?! Day one (Tuesday the 23rd) began at 7:00 am when they came in and put plastic & tape up ALL over the house. At 8:00 am the water went off....thank goodness our neighbors, Jen & Darren Jepson are good friends & let me & the girls hang out there all day...Coray got to go to work (he was lucky). As you can see by the pictures, there's NO WAY I could've stayed here with the girls all day...it looked like a Haz Mat area! Luckily they were done by 3:30 & we got the water back on & they DO clean up the mess, put everything back & take all the plastic down. Day two (yesterday) began at 7:00 am & they were gone by 1:30 this time...no floor to ceiling plastic yesterday either, much better. The city inspector had to come out first though & make sure the installed piping was up to code & working. Then they started to put the drywall back. Did I mention there are about FORTY holes in the walls?? They started to plaster over some of the drywall but they will finish that job tomorrow beginning at...yes, you guessed it....7:00 am. Monday is the last day & that's the painting. We'll try to be out of the house as much as possible for that, or we may all end up with headaches from the fumes. Everybody thinks we're nuts to have them doing this right over Christmas but I really want it over & definitely need to be checking things off the list. We have a surgery date of January 15th (that's THREE weeks from today), so I want nothing left to do by then except recover. Two more days of this, only two more days (repeat as necessary)!

A lost tooth & a new car!!

YAY!!! Today was a good day. First off we got a new car!! It only took a month but I am SOOO glad that I won't have to drive Coray to & from work anymore. Not that it's far but having to work around EVERYONE else's schedules has been so exhausting. And yes, I do mean the girls too. Because 100 times a day they need me for something & I'm still working 20 hours a week (at least). Sometimes it can take me all day to get in four hours of work. So yes, adding Coray's schedule into that has been difficult. But NO more!! We got a 2002 Honda Civic DX. It's white & has FOUR doors (our old Civic was a '99 two door). It's a DX, which is the base model, so it doesn't have power windows or locks or a CD player. We're going to have one put in because that was the one thing Coray did want. He said he didn't really care about the rest as long as it's a good, reliable car that can get him "from point A to point B". We got it at a Honda dealer so we felt pretty good about it. They even had the vehicle history report & had the whole thing checked end to end. I found it on Autotrader & we went last Monday too look at it. Of course they wanted too much & we walked away...but not before they had mentioned there was at least one other couple there to look at it. Apparently no one could get financing & oh yeah....we were paying with cash. It was still listed yesterday & I called the guy we'd seen Monday to point that out. They ended up taking our "top" offer & I went & did all the paperwork while Coray was at the Las Vegas Bowl tonight. He didn't know so I surprised him a bit when he got home...he was happy about it. Check one thing off the list!

Also, Emma lost her first tooth tonight!!! It's been loose since before Thanksgiving. Right before bed Emma called me in to their bedroom & asked me to look at her mouth. Her tooth was hanging on by just a thread & it was bleeding a bit. We went into the bathroom & she swished some water around her mouth. I asked her if she could pull it out, she tried but said she couldn't. I was actually a bit afraid it would fall out during the night & she'd swallow it or something so I had her try again. Sure enough she got it out. She's getting so dang big!!

Just to lighten the mood

IT SNOWED HERE IN HENDERSON TODAY!!!! The girls were ecstatic. It really was pretty & it seems like everyone in the neighborhood ended up outside playing. We let the kids (big & little) out for about an hour & a half. They had a blast. It was fun that they got to play in the snow without actually going anywhere. BUT...I wouldn't want to deal with this type of weather for months on end (knock on wood)! A day here & there sure, let's just hope it melts soon so I feel safe driving again. Emma & Grace both got into a snowball fight with everyone else. I don't think there were any "sides", it was more like "hit whoever is closest to you." Too funny. Gracie seemed to just want to hit me. She was getting the biggest kick out of it. Thank goodness her snowballs were "Gracie size!" At first, though, all she wanted to do was eat the snow. Which I have no problem with but she was getting it off the dirty street. Yuck. Well, it's just dirt, right??

So everything is about to change

It's been a VERY emotional week so far, to say the least. But good because we now have some direction. The biggest thing is that Coray & I met my Oncologist today, Dr. Heather Allen. She was great. She works for Comprehensive Cancer Centers of Nevada (www.cccnevada.com). We loved the facility. Everyone there was just so...nice. I don't have the words. What she told us, and what I've been mentally preparing myself for, is that I will definitely have to have Chemotherapy. The cancer is an aggressive one & she basically said we need to get aggressive too. It's good to have a game plan, I am better when I have goals & timeframes. The big things will be the Mastectomy & then the Chemo. I also found a Plastic Surgeon (a BYU grad too!) and met him yesterday (when I got my snow pictures!). His name is Dr. Cameron Earl. He was also great. I felt so comfortable talking to him and about the whole procedure. We ran into an issue with my current surgeon...the Plastic Surgeon she usually works with & who also works out of the same hospital as her doesn't take our insurance. So, she recommended Dr. Earl, only I need to get a new surgeon & it's at a different hospital (Summerlin), which is on the other side of the valley near Dave & Skye. Dr. Earl's office gave me the names of two surgeons that he has worked with before & recommends...both take our insurance so no issue there. I need to call them tomorrow to find out who has earliest availability & then let Dr. Earl know so they can start coordinating their schedules. This will not happen until after the holidays, so that's good. I'd like to enjoy them a bit! Anyway, the surgeon will do the Mastectomy & then Dr. Earl will begin reconstruction right away with a tissue expander. I will have to see Dr. Earl every week or two (can't remember which he said) to add fluid to the expander until my skin has grown out enough to actually have an implant put in it's place. He said that's typically a couple months. The other thing that will happen during that surgery is the surgeon will put a Port-a-cath in just under my collarbone on the right side. This will be used for my Chemo & will stay in for at least a year. It's completely internal & will go directly into my superior Vena Cava. It is the easiest way to admister Chemo & will be much better than them having to search for a vein every time. The Port is self sealing internally so they will just have to stick the IV needle through a small layer of skin to reach the access area (which is slightly smaller than a dime). Three weeks after the surgery I will begin Chemo. I will be on three drugs, only one of which I remember. It is Herceptin. I will have to have the Herceptin once a week. That is not the "killer" drug. It's the other two that are the ones that will make me lose my hair & wipe me out for a few days. BUT...the "good" thing about those two is that I only have to do them every THREE weeks. So, Herceptin every week & then the "triple cocktail" every third week. I will do that for six cycles (18 weeks roughly) and then be done with that part. I will then continue on with the Herceptin but that will drop down to every three weeks then until I have been on it for one year. Radiation is now to be determined. That would be after the Chemo & we won't know that until after the Mastectomy...I don't remember why.

Before the surgery I have several things to do, other than finding a surgeon. Friday I am having a genetic test done. This will determine if I'm positive for the Breast Cancer gene. If so then we will definitely do a double Mastectomy. If not I have some hard thinking to do. There would be no MEDICAL reason to do a double but Dr. Allen said many women (especially younger cancer patients) will do it for emotional & psychological reasons. And they will absolutely do a double for those reasons. If I'm negative for the gene I still have a 1/5 chance of developing cancer later in life. Keeping in mind that 1/8 women will be diagnosed with cancer during their lifetime. So, do we want to take that risk?? Regardless if I have a single or double BY LAW every insurance company has to cover reconstructive surgery. Meaning if I have a single then I am entitled to an implant and/or lift on the opposite side so that I end up symetrical. Coray would prefer if I just have the double & eliminate the risk. I'm just not 100% sure yet. I will wait until after the gene test & decide then. I also have to have a MUGA scan. This is basically a scan of my heart that will create a baseline for them to use during Chemo. The drugs can weaken your heart muscles and so they will do additional MUGA scans at regular intervals & make sure my heart is still strong. Then I need to have a PET scan (if my insurance company will approve it....they are quite expensive from what I'm told). It's similar to an MRI but you get injected with a radioactive material which can determine if the cancer has spread to any other areas of your body. I'm told the half life of the radioactive substance is short so I won't be left in a lead room for long...thank goodness!

So there's a LOT going on. I'm trying to explain things to the girls in age appropriate ways. Gracie won't really get much. She knows Mommy has a "boo boo" & will have more "docker poin-ments". She's going to notice changes in my physical appearance but not much else. Emma understands a little more. I think when I start the Chemo I am going to have my hair cut off. I think I'll have Emma with me so she can see that it's still me. Plus I don't think I'll break down completely with her there. She knows Mommy is going to be bald, I'm going to have lots of doctor appointments, I'm going to be sick sometimes & that I'm going to have an operation & will be in the hospital for a couple days. I've been really trying to keep it light with her, so far so good. She asked me today "Mommy, is it ok if I laugh when you cut your hair off?" I had to smile at that. Yes baby, you can laugh. I'd rather laugh than cry & I think we're going to need as much laughter as we can get during the upcoming year!

SNOW in Vegas!

I guess it's not ALL that uncommon. It's just that I haven't seen it in SO long (not really complaining about that). Well, we went up to the snow one day at the beginning of the year & went sledding but nothing so close to home. The girls were quite disappointed that it wasn't snowing at our house...just in the west valley. We did take them driving later to see it but we didn't get out because it was getting late. Actually it was really pretty. This was outside the medical building when I was leaving the doctor's office this morning (I had a consult with a Plastic Surgeon about reconstructive surgery)...the snow had just started sticking. These next three pictures were all taken with my camera phone so they're not the best, but you get the idea.

Seriously....does this look like Vegas?!

I wish this was more clear. It's the huge Marriott resort. It was really pretty with the lights & the snow. If you click on it you can enlarge & see it better....not bad for my little phone camera!

Gracie helping Daddy

Coray has these exercise thingys called "Perfect Push-ups". Gracie LOVES to help him by climbing on his back & counting for him when he does them. I got this picture the other day. I love the "gym face" she has....like she's really straining & pushing herself. Too cute.

Christmas at Thanksgiving

More pictures from our Arizona trip over Thanksgiving. Since all of Coray's family was there we celebrated Christmas while we were all together. We had so much fun!

The salon pictures

Here are more pictures at the salon. I like the before & after of the girls. We had so much fun!

Emma & Brooke at the Salon

Last week in Arizona my friend Shannon & I took Emma & Brooke (her daughter & Emma's "bestest friend") to the salon. They had manicures, pedicures & had their hair done. Shannon & I had pedicures. The salon was so great with the girls & they had a blast. Here's a little video Shannon took of the girls after they were done. (you need to mute the playlist if you want to hear it well)

First report card!

Emma got her first report card. They are very different from when I was a kid! It's not an actual card anymore, it's several pieces of paper stapled together with a lot of information on it. Bottom line is she did VERY well & we are so proud of her! One guess where we took her as a reward...yep, Cold Stone! We did have dinner first at Pei Wei, still our favorite. She's growing so fast!